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20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

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20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

Post by felicity on 7/9/2016, 5:58 pm





20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You

This is a great article - though long worth the read and discussion.



     

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Re: 20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

Post by TeamMe on 7/9/2016, 6:17 pm

Gah! I could only make it to point 9 and had to stop. it just blows my mind how she (the M) does this cr*p. But, one thing I am grateful for is that I have stood up to her enough for her to know to not go there. So, she will not respond but then go to one of the other siblings to make herself all wonderful again.
Headache!
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Re: 20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

Post by felicity on 7/9/2016, 6:23 pm

Oh, I am sorry - I made through many of them -

I am simply amazed that people actually do study this stuff and know ALL of the little tricks that I once fell for -

At the end of each one, she did put how to avoid falling into it. I liked that.

I think the biggest message was to know our self and trust that we are important, significant - and no one else can define us - stay grounded in our reality of NOW. Eeks, some of those were pretty eerie that people actually think and behave like that.



     

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Re: 20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

Post by krathyn on 7/9/2016, 9:35 pm

i could see not just my abusers, but my SO's sister and a former boss in some of those 20. Even a bad bus driver i knew.
fortunately now, i am not in such relationships that use this kind of abuse/



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Re: 20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

Post by Promise on 7/9/2016, 10:26 pm

Yeah, people actually Do this, on purpose!

I too liked how she told how not to fall in to it.

Some of these are doubly hard when dissociated.

Another thing I like was the suggestion of having support, friends, etc. It's important
to stay in actual reality, not the abusers reality. Something like that.
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Re: 20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

Post by felicity on 7/10/2016, 8:13 am

Yes, when we can't stay in the now - we call a friend and get reoriented to who we are - I think that is actually the reason for venting. Get all that crap they have fed you out of our system and back to rational thinking - once they are done breaking you down - right?

Remember that is about their mental stability and now ours' - I may read this or print it to recognize when someone is using these tactics to control me -



     

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Re: 20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You - article

Post by krathyn on 7/11/2016, 6:43 pm

oh yeh when you dissociate you go back to the state you were in when a lot of people were using these "techniques" so it is easy to get re-abused.



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