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To provide a unique environment where folks who have experienced trauma can openly and safely talk. We strive to respect, validate, and learn from each other.


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Post by Zero on Sat Nov 05, 2016 7:35 am

Someone please help me....my fiance has DID and all of a sudden I'm not her fiancé anymore and she dosnt remember a lot of the things we did together...idk what to do, the more I try to help the angrier she gets because she thinks I'm making fun of her disorder since she thinks nothings wrong with her. Im begging for anyone's help
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Post by Ursus on Sat Nov 05, 2016 9:39 am

here is my two cents worth. Do you know she is DID or do you think she is? There's a difference. You say that whenever you are trying to help she reacts badly. To me an indication to stop trying to help. Be there for her. Talk with her, not only to her. Be there in silence if needed. Try to figure out what she most needs/wants. But try to remain a friend, a partner. Try not to 'quickly' fix her. Distance yourself a bit too look at her and see what she needs. I understand your desperation, but for now there might be no room for that between the two of you. Seek out your own friends for that. Be patient.
Hope you find what you (both) need.
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